Yay! ! ! ! . . .

   I just got done filing my taxes and I'm very happy that it was so much easier and less complicated then I originally thought it would be! Now all I have to do is wait a little while for my refund to be sent to me which will most definitely go towards bills though. Grrrrr! Oh well, it can't really be helped much so all I can do is pay everything that I have to and enjoy what I can. At least I have that done and over with now. Now what's next?

   Oh, I know! Now I get to wait till I have to go to work at 6pm. Uggghhhhhhhh! I really don't want to go tonight. At least today is my "Friday" because I don't work on Thursday and Friday in any aspect so I can relax and spend the money I don't have on drinking. Hmmmmmm. . . I should probably make sure I don't acquire a drinking problem this year. =[.

  







~Miguel~

Saturday was fun and breakfast afterwards made it that much better . . .

   Saturday wound up to be a good time. I had fun and danced until my feet were sore. Now, unfortunately, I'm wearing a band-aid on my little toe to keep it from scraping against my sock anymore. It should be better when I let my feet rest but if you know me then you know I won't really give my feet that much of a break. If I hear music then chances are that I'll be dancing to it.
   Back to Saturday though. Our two special guests for the night, Brandon Lewis and Tyler Andrews, came down and put on a very sexy show for us to watch. There were a few parts I wouldn't mind being able to rewind and watch again ;). Lol. I didn't get to personally talk with them both for too long but the few minutes I did get to talk with them they were pretty cool. Tyler is adorable and just kind of makes me want to ruffle his hair a bit and have a tickle/wrestle match with him. . .hmmmmm. . . in our pj's of course you dirty people! ;P.
   Brandon was definitely sexy although I will admit I might be slightly infatuated with him. I can't honestly even remember what we talked about too much only because it was hard for me to concentrate on anything other than the fact that he has a southern accent and it just made me melt to the floor the moment he uttered a word. If you haven't guessed I have a thing for southern accents. I don't know why but they drive me wild and needless to say now but Brandon has one of the accents. Just the fact that they both had some things going very well for them and then seeing them on stage and dancing together didn't stop me from enjoying the show even though I was working.
   I hope they enjoyed their night down at Touch Providence and had fun. After all the fun though I went out to breakfast with some of the boys and shoved some food straight into my face because I was really hungry and wanted some food. I was just happy that I remembered that I needed to chew my food while I was eating. It definitely ended my night on a high note though.

~Miguel~

Touch Providences Double Header! ! ! ! !

   Tomorrow will be Touch Providences Double Header starring Brandon Lewis and Tyler Andrews! It should be a fun night tomorrow. :). Can't wait to see how the night turns out. All I know is that after it's all said and done I'm going to be tired and hankering for some breakfast. Lol. It's a good thing that there's a diner that's still open two seconds down the street when the club closes for the night because I am definitely going to be dragging some of the boys there with me so I can eat.

   Besides that I've also been excited that it's been so warm outside for the last two days down here in Providence. The weather should start to go back down after today but it was a nice break from the cold. It shouldn't get too cold during the day until Tuesday. I can't wait until the low for the day only hits around 30 degrees and the high hit from 48 and up.

~Miguel~

Hey! Happy Valentines Day . . . .

    Also referred to as Remember You're Single Day by some of my friends and I. Sorry I've been M.I.A for a while. I just haven't been in front of my computer long enough to do much. Not too much has happened between the last entry that I made and now. I did put together a last minute Valentines Eve party down at Touch Providence.
   It was definitely fun! I went out and got candy and decorations yesterday before work and I had all the dancers come in wearing Valentine colored or inspired stripper wear. We got everyone on a sugar rush by handing out chocolate, sweet tarts and jolly rancher lollipops all night. It was kind of hard not to eat all of the lollipops because they tasted amazing. I somehow managed to stave myself from eating more than one lollipop though so I'm very proud about that.

   I don't know how I always manage this but I seem to always be single on Valentines Day. It just seems to be fate working it's maniacal plan for me to not have a Valentine. To be honest though my friends always make me better and since I am single on Valentines Day I always get to have more then one Valentine so I guess there's the silver lining in that situation. It still is really early in the day so I still might end up with a crush being my Valentine today and then that would just make my day. I'm not a snob though so even if that happens you can still be my Valentine too.

   Alright, I guess this is it for now but I will definitely be trying to be updating more often now. Hopefully I get myself into some interesting "adventures" to write about and keep you guys entertained. I'm sure things will come up. Once again Happy Valentines / Remember You're Single Day, whichever one you choose to celebrate. ;P

~Miguel~

Hey everyone. . .

   OK, so for the last few weeks I've been kind of out of it for some reason or another. I'm not sure why but it's just been like that. I've been meaning to write out a blog but I just haven't gotten around to it so now, while I'm at work, waiting for the laundry to be finished I decided to get online and write one out which brings us here now. Let's start off with business first. Coming, February 19th, will be Touch Providence's Double Header!
   It sounds very dirty doesn't it? Well hopefully it plays out that way too. Lol. Alright, here's the details for it.

We've got a surprise for everyone on February 19th. We will be entertaining you with a night to remember with not just one but two adult entertainment stars! That's right two! Next Door Buddies exclusive Brandon Lewis and Falcon/ Hot House star Tyler Andrews! They'll be headlining our Double Header event with hot erotic stage shows, special autograph sessions and giveaways. So if you feel like you can handle two at once come down and join us so we can double your enjoyment this February 19!

 Should be very exciting! I can't wait! In regards to the club there are a few things being spruced and fixed up hopefully by the time these two handsome guys show they're pretty mugs at Touch all of it will be done and then everyone would be in for an awesome show. I've definitely got fingers crossed for it all being done in time. Now time for the personal stuff. Yay! ! ! . . . .  :| hmmmmm.
   Ok so I've wound up slightly hurt and disheartened by my last attempt at trying to date someone. It ended with me just having to accept the fact that he was at least not interested in me in the same way I was with him and at most he was using me for money which I really do not appreciate and trust me that's one of the main reasons I gave up on him because I don't let people use me for money so if you only call me to ask for things (whether I buy them or not) and don't try to at least make some personal time for the two of us then I'm not going to really wait around for you to figure out how to milk my compassion in a less obvious way. Plus I got tired of waiting for him to tell me he was still taking care of and sleeping with another person. Yeah, I'm done with him. ::Sigh:: Back up on the horse again I guess.
   Lastly if you are a family member of mine and you've read all the way to this point then first bravo for reading all of that and second this is who I am and my life so if you want to talk about it to me feel free and understand that your intentions are appreciated but please don't try to talk me out of my life and attempt to change who I am and what I'm doing. I love you but I'm not changing. :)

2 something in the morning and I'm eating re-heated chinese food. . .

   Don't be alarmed that something's happened because nothing has. If you know me then you probably know that I usually eat dinner at around 1am and if you don't then, well, now you know also. Lol. Anyways, I just had the random feeling that I wanted to write out a blog so here I am. I guess this would be a perfect time to let you guys know what's going on in my ever-so-exciting life. Hmmm, where to start?
   So we (in providence/cranston, rhode island) have gotten around 1 to 2 feet of snow. Not too sure about the accuracy of that seeing as I didn't go out to measure it myself but from the safety of my nice, warm, living room I can definitely tell you that there is a whole lot of snow outside right now. So much so that I had a snow day from work today which made me very excited because Wednesdays are the last day of my work week until Saturday so I just got myself a 3 day weekend. WoooHoooo! ! ! Lol. I spent it doing some dishes and then watching a marathon of Greek with my room mate Morgan while eating chinese food and laughing about the show. I love hanging out like that with her.

Morgan and I hanging out.

   So to sum all of that up, I had a good, fun and relaxing day today thanks to the snow. Thank you snow ! ! ! Ok, on to other subjects now. I'm starting to have a crush on a boy now although I can't honestly call him a boy because he is a good bit older then I am. Nothing new there though, I'm always going after or dating someone older then me. Not by choice but by the fact that I'm just attracted to them and they so happen to be older then me
    You can't choose who you are attracted to so much as you can choose to breath. Sure you can choose not to breath the same way you can choose to go out, date or just have meaningless sex with someone you don't feel connected to but sooner or later you'll have to take a breath or you'll just wind up dead (or dead inside). lol. I'm not exactly sure how I got into that little ramble but let's move on. All in all I like this guy but there's a few problems in that situation. One being that I'm pretty sure that he and his girlfriend might be bunking together for the time being.

   Yeah, leave it to me to fall for straight guys but, hold on, what's this? He isn't straight! He say's he's bi and I know how a lot of you think and honestly I couldn't care less if you believe in bisexuality because I'm bi also so if you think being bi doesn't exist well then go away or keep your opinions to yourself. So yeah, where was I? Right, he said that he's bi and would like to hang out some time with me which I of course agreed to and also told him that I kinda have a crush on him to which his reply was that he felt the same. Now I'm all excited about this but can't do much until he decides to let me know about his situation with the girl and what he plan's on doing about it because for all he knows I still know nothing about his girlfriend.
   I'm only so well informed because I know a good amount of people. I always seem to get myself into complicated situations when it comes to romantic interests. Anyways, sorry for the lengthy blog. Hopefully I haven't put you guys to sleep.

~Miguel~

Hey, it's a new year! ! ! ! ! !

   And I'm 7 days late in writing this. Sorry, I guess I got too caught up in the celebrating of the new year. So my New Years eve celebration consisted of strippers, a porn star, lots of alcohol and friends (appropriately mixed), and me working from 11:40 am till 2am. It was a blast! Honestly though, the whole celebrating thing is still happening and I'm still having fun.
   The porn star's name is Hunter Vance and he was cool. He did a whole candle wax and fireman show and it was fun to watch. I said hi to him and we talked a little bit (and I mean a few seconds at a time like 3 times so it was a very little bit). Some of my friends were there and we drank into the New Year in which 20 minutes prior I had started to work. It was fun and I made some extra, unexpected money so it worked out.
   Since then I've been having a good time enjoying the new year and so far it's starting off pretty good. Let's just hope I didn't jinx my self right now and this year keeps it's momentum. Here's the big news though. I only guest appeared at Touch on new years for about two hours but starting tonight I'll be dancing there again every Saturday and Sunday so you know what that means right? I better see you guys there!
   I miss being a dancer while I was on my 2 month break so I'm really excited to start dancing again tonight. Should be fun! I hope all of your new years were just as fun and if you feel so inclined to tell me about it then feel free. I always love to read about other people having a good/crazy time in their lives.

~Miguel~

Hunter Vance - New Year's Eve - Touch Providence

^-Promo for New Years at Touch Providence with Hunter Vance!-^

Hey everyone! It's almost time to celebrate the coming of the new year and I have my plans set. I'll be at Touch Providence with a group of my friends and drinking down the year with the boys at Touch as well as their special guest for the evening Hunter Vance. I might even do my own special guest appearance once or twice on stage but I'm not too sure on that yet. I am sure about just trying to enjoy the night.
Alcohol, strippers, porn star and all. Hopefully it will be a night to remember and please feel free to come down and hang with me because it's always good to have more friends around. I'm just so excited. I'm so excited and who knows, I might even find some one to REALLY kiss-in the new year with, if you catch my drift ;). Ok, ok, I might just be getting a little carried away but it never hurts to dream.
Well, whatever your plans for the new year may be, whether their with me down at Touch. . . ;) . . . or not, I hope you have fun on New Years Eve and have a great intro to the new year.

P.S. Feel free to send me any little dirty details about how you ring in 2011.

~Miguel~

Oh Christmas. How I wanted to scream while breaking things durring your day. . .

   Ugh, that's all I can say about it. Ok, that's a lie. I had a good and fun Christmas eve though. Went to a friends house for a Christmas dinner they were having. It was fun and there was a lot of good food which I thoroughly enjoyed as well as some good drinks being mad which I enjoyed more of, lol.
   I felt kind of bad though because I was getting so hungry while I was waiting to be picked up that I had to eat some food before my ride showed up but having two nicely sized dinners within minutes of each other was satisfying. We drank, ate and watched almost (and sometimes completely) naked gladiators fight train and argue. I have to say that Spartacus: Blood and Sand is a very good show ;). It was a definite good time being had by me and my friends. The annoying part started after I got home. Some time after I got home and before I woke up the next morning.
   I wake up on Christmas day to find my cell phone telling me I have no sim card in it which, btw, I do. So I take it out and put it back in to only get the same message. I try put it into my old phone and the phone still doesn't detect it so now I know for certain the sim card is messed up. All I have to do is get a new one which is no problem except that it's Christmas and the AT&T store is closed. I still went to check anyways for myself and lo and behold, it was.
   So I make my journey all the way back to my place from downtown to come back to the warm but empty house with no working phone. At that moment I was livid to say the least. I couldn't call my father, let alone anyone else, on Christmas and I knew they were all texting and calling me so I was in a bad mood, more or less. At least I was by myself with no one to go off on. I just cooked some food and watched the Buffy marathon they were having on Chiller.
   At least in that respect it was peaceful and quiet. Of course on the next day when the AT&T store is open and I head there to get my phone fixed this snow storm decides to accompany me when I get downtown. I go straight to the mall, get my new sim (which fixes my phone), eat some food, walk around for a few minutes and then head to the Starbucks at the Biltmore so I can kill the next 45 minutes, which is when my bus comes, and stay warm with some coffee. Of course it doesn't work out that way. I get there and there's a sign on the door saying that they'll be closing in the next 5 minutes due to the coming storm.
   I decide to get my coffee anyways and leave to wait for my bus but see a cab waiting where they usually do near the bus station so I say screw and take a cab back home. Once I get home my phone decides that it now wants to acknowledge all the text messages and voice mails I received while my pone was out of commission. 86 text messages (a good portion from weather and Facebook updates) and 5 voice mails. Oh fun. After going through all of it I ended my day by cooking some food, sat in front of the t.v. downstairs and then up in my room with a dvd set in it, snuggling up with my teddy bear and drinking coffee and hot coco.
   I'm hoping that New years will go a little better.

~Miguel~

I just want to go back to sleep. . .

   I went to the Christmas party at Touch Providence and hung out with some of my friends. We just chit-chatted for most of the night and drank our way to the end so we were definitely having fun. There were a good amount of people and it stayed relatively crowded till the end. The dancers all seemed like they were getting along with their night pretty good so I'm guessing there weren't any problems or drama going on with each other. It was a good night all in all with lots of people bringing sometimes more then one toy so we can donate them to Aids Care Ocean State for kids who might be having a bit harder Christmas then the rest of us.
   I also have some news for New Years. . .

Hunter Vance will be helping us ring in the New Year with us down at Touch Providence! Friday, Dec. 31st he will be putting on a show for all of us to enjoy and there seems to be some giveaways as well so come to find out what they might be. He'll also be doing an autograph session for all of his fans if you're just itching to spend some quality autograph signing time with him. Lastly while the clock hits midnight, we will be doing a champagne toast to help everyone ring in the New Year right!
   Now I think I wrote too much. lol. If you don't hear from me on my blog before Christmas then I hope you have a wonderful one and enjoy yourself wherever you might be or find yourself on that day.

~Miguel~